Distinctly Loved

Distinctly Loved

Chet Phillips

Transcript

Well, good morning. This is the first week of our Home Sweet Home series. I'm really excited to kind of get started and to look at what the church is. Maybe a better way to say that, more theologically correct way to say that, is who the church is. And honestly, it's going to be massively helpful for us because I find that a lot of times we don't ask that question. We don't ask what makes the church the church?

How did the church become the church? Who is the church? We just kind of assume it. So maybe you'd say, well, we're at church right now. This is it. And I would say, keep listening because nuh-uh.

The Bible is going to say that the church is people. The church is more like a bride than a building. The church is more like a family than anything else. And so we're actually going to take some time just to try to understand what makes the church the church. And this is actually very important for us, massively important for us. And we know this, like we know that it's helpful for us to understand some definitions of things before we get involved in them.

A very quick example. Somebody says to you, hey, can you do me a favor? Because you've had people ask you that before, your response is, what? The response is not, yeah, the response is, what? What you want? And then they tell you, because you want to define the terms first.

You want to understand what you're getting in on. Like if I said, hey, do you want to be a Marine? You would say, what's a Marine? Like I need to know before I'm signing up for something. I need to know what we're talking about. If somebody, if you go to get married, um, so the Bible says it's like, it's like a marriage.

The church is the bride. So if you went to get married, you'd want to understand what that meant, what that entailed, what went along with that. If you were, uh, it says it's like a family. Like we have definitions that impact how we think through things, how we approach life. Um, and the church seems to me to be very similar in some ways, uh, to, to marriage and to maybe having a family, maybe having children. And here's, here's why on the outside, you think you understand really well, how it works.

And then when you get on the inside, you realize, Oh no, no, I didn't give you an example. The people who are really the best at being married are not married. They can tell you everything you want to know about marriage. What you ought to do as a husband and what you ought to do as a wife. Like I was a pro on being married and then you get married and you're like, Whoa. And you think thoughts like, I mean, I don't know my wife thought thoughts like, am I the only person in the world who's married to such a moron?

Like how come you think things like, why does it work so easily for everybody else? And why do we stay up till three o'clock in the morning arguing with each other? It's like, you haven't been in my house at three o'clock in the morning. They're all up arguing with each other. Like, that's what you needed to know. I got a secret for you.

Like you get married and you're like, wow, this is way harder than I thought. It's the same thing with having kids, man. I've got a one-year-old. I was a pro at having children a year ago. Could have told you, like you see kids, you'd be like, my kid's not going to act like that. And then you have kids and it's like the other day he hit my wife with a stick.

So I took the stick from him and he rolls on the ground screaming and kicking. Like I have just assaulted him. And my first thought is, you know, like how to, how to parent this situation. I think I should hit him with the stick. Like this is the best move right now. We'll assert a chain of dominance, like how this works, but you just, you just, it's one of those things where you think it's one way, you think it's going to be a certain way and then you get in it.

And so the truth is we look at the church and you might would say, uh, maybe from the outside, you're like, oh yeah, this is what a church should be like. And this is how a church ought to relate to each other. And this is, and it's like this magic floaty fairy tale land. And then you get into it. You actually give it a shot. Like the people who act like churches are beautiful and perfect.

It's like, you've never been a part of one. Have you? You never really gave that a go. Once you get in it, you're like, oh, oh goodness. This is more difficult than I thought. And so there's a little bit of us.

And maybe if you've been around a church before and you've had your feelings hurt, or you've been sinned against, maybe you're like, hey, is the home sweet home thing? Like, are we saying that sarcastically? That's a joke, right? Like it's tongue in cheek, like homes, home sweet home. Like this place is terrible. Is that what we're going for?

Because maybe you've been hurt. And so what I would say is this, no, it's not a joke. It actually gets to be that we actually get to have a real genuine, deep, loving relationships. And yeah, you may have been hurt before. And, and I want to go ahead and give you the Mill City guarantee, which is if you keep hanging out, you'll get hurt here. You're welcome.

We believe that we're a group of sinners brought together by the grace of Jesus. If you keep being a part of things, I can guarantee someone's going to sin against you. Your feelings are going to get hurt, or you're going to sin against somebody. You're going to hurt somebody's feelings. You're going to harm somebody. And sometimes it's, it's as easy as a misunderstanding.

And sometimes it's blatant and bad. And here's the thing. If we don't have a working, healthy, correct definition of what the church is, I can almost guarantee something for you. You won't be able to stick with one. If you don't really understand what the church is and how the church became the church. And if you don't have a very foundational definition, you'll peace out.

You'll be done at some point. And at some point you'll move from one church to another. Like the only way you'll be able to approach church is sometime kind of a, what do I like the best? What, what most suits my needs? What, what do I enjoy the most? You kind of approach it consumeristically and preferentially.

And then at some point though, you're, you're going to, you're going to bounce around from church to church because you'll think, Oh, people know me here. Can I get a handheld mic? Is that, is this going to be super distracting if I keep making this noise? People know me here. Um, and I'll try to keep the handheld night near my face. Um, when I get it, but you'll think people know me here.

They know I'm messed up. I got to go somewhere else where they don't know my story. Or you'll think, man, everybody here's a jerk or this person's a jerk. And if I could just be a part of a different church, like this would work out. Uh, this is Logan Phillips. Everybody he's been here since seven 30 this morning.

Thank you. In a world. Okay. I just wanted to test it out in a way that I won't talk the rest of the time. Um, I'm going to try not to, I'll break it. I'm going to work on that.

So I won't do that the whole time. Um, okay. You'll, you'll, you'll bounce from church to church. You'll, you'll hang out with it, with a church for a while and then you'll get offended. You'll get hurt. You'll, you'll have something, uh, just, it'll turn out they're sinners or they'll find out you're a sinner.

And it's going to be a problem. If you don't know what the church is, and if you don't know how it's actually supposed to be designed and you don't know what the foundation is for it. So here's what we're doing today. As we start this series, the next couple of weeks, we're going to talk very practically. We're going to talk about characteristics that the church ought to have. We're going to talk about what a church ought to look like.

We're going to tell you if you're a part of a church and this is missing, this is a problem. If you are a Christian and this is missing, this is a problem. This is how we ought to relate to each other. We're going to talk very practically today. We're going to lay the foundation for that with a very zoomed out view of what foundationally makes the church, the church. So if you were to describe your family to somebody and ask, what's a family?

You'd say you wouldn't start off with, well, we all have curly hair. No, foundationally it's further back. Foundationally there's something deeper there. And so what we're doing is to understand what the church is. We're going to go foundational and then we'll be able to talk about all the curly hair and stuff next week. What did actually start looking like?

So I'm going to pray and then we're going to hop into Ephesians. So God, we thank you for this opportunity. We thank you for how good you are to us. Thank you for your love and your grace towards us. And we pray Lord that we would have a better, more true understanding of the church after today. In Jesus name.

Amen. Amen. I'm taking this one off so I'm not too mic'd up the whole time. I'm going to go put it over here. Think a deep thought while I'm doing this. Talk amongst yourselves.

Okay, stop and pay attention. Here we go. Ephesians chapter one. All right. So this is a letter written by the apostle Paul to a church in Ephesus.

And he's going to start off by helping them see what it, who they are, identity. So when we talk about like I'm a part of a family, we're talking DNA, we're talking bloodline, we're talking some sort of an adoption process that makes us that. And so he's going to start off with that, who the church is, identity. So we're going to start in Ephesians chapter one, verse three. That'll be on page 633. If your Bible is one of the blue and white Bibles from the road.

If you don't own a Bible, I'll take this one with you. Blessed be the God and father of our Lord Jesus Christ. So he starts off by saying, may God be blessed. May he be held in high esteem. May he be honored. Blessed be the God and father of our Lord Jesus Christ who has blessed us.

And so every time we see us here, he's talking to the church about the church. So we're going to try to, as we read this, understand what makes the us and us. Does that make sense? Like when you're in a dating, dating relationship and like you had to have a DTR or maybe, maybe you were trying to figure out like how it was going. And then like you were paying attention to the sentences and they said stuff like, you know, like they used us in a way that meant maybe we were an us. And your little heart started beating or maybe it started beating because you were like, I don't think we in us.

Will you tone it down? Like, I don't know, but you know, like this is a little bit, we're going to read this and kind of have a DTR, try to understand what makes the us, what makes we and us. Okay. Um, who has blessed us in Christ. So that's Jesus with every spiritual blessing in heavenly places.

I don't even know what that means, but it sounds amazing. It's like when someone says we're going to have a seven course meal and you think I've never had one of those. I don't know what all the seven courses will be, but it sounds amazing. So we get to know what some of these spiritual blessings are, but we don't get to know what every spiritual blessing is, but we know that the church, the us has every spiritual blessing in heavenly places because of Jesus. Even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him in love. He predestined us for adoption as sons.

That's some other family language. The Bible uses adoption as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will, to the praise of his glorious grace with which he has blessed us in the beloved. So the beloved there capital B that's Jesus. So what he's saying is that in Jesus, we've been blessed with all the blessings, all the spiritual blessings in heavenly places that he chose us in him. He predestined us to be made perfect and blameless before him that he chose to do this on our behalf, that he could bless us because of his grace. Verse seven in him, in Jesus, we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace.

Okay. So in Jesus, when he says we have forgiveness through his blood, uh, redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, what he's saying is that when Jesus went to the cross, his blood was shed to pay for all of our sin. That's what trespass means. Like when you trespass, you cross the line that you weren't supposed to cross. So his blood pays for that, that we're redeemed, which means to be bought back through his blood according or because of the riches of his grace, which he lavished upon us in all wisdom and insight, making known to us the mystery of his will, according to his purpose, which he set forth in Christ as a plan for the fullness of time to unite all things in him, things in heaven and things on earth.

Okay. So, uh, verse seven and eight, it says in him, we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace. Grace means unearned, unmerited favor and love, which he lavished upon us in all wisdom and insight. So lavished. How many of y'all use that word this past week? You were getting a hot dog and you were like, Hey, lavish some cheese on that.

We don't use that word very often. So I want to take a second for help us understand that. Cause I don't think we, I think we all think, Oh yeah, I kind of have an understanding of what that means, but you don't really think about it that often. So God has lavished grace on us. It means it's too much. It's too much.

So when you, you, maybe you've seen somebody in a relationship where, uh, they just lavished all their money and all their time on somebody to the point that you were like, like, this is y'all, this is unhealthy. Like you, you, this is too much. Like, even if you were the one having all this stuff, you're like, this is great. This is great. This is great. All right.

This is getting weird. Like what? Don't you have a job? What do you, why are you here all the time? Like that's, he lavished it. If you, at Thanksgiving with your family, you go to your mama's house or your great aunt, whoever got the biggest house or cooks the best.

And you, you're in line behind one of your cousins and he fills up his plate and he gets, uh, turkey and stuffing and mashed potatoes and a biscuit. Cause you got to have carbs and starches. That's really all you need. Mac and cheese. You're going to need another plate for that. So he fills this up and then he gets to the gravy and he just starts pouring brown gravy.

I mean, at first it looks good. And then it's like, man, he keeps circling around. Like he just covers his whole plate with gravy. Like you can't even tell what's there anymore. And you're like, dude, just stop. That was too much.

It's too much, too much gravy. And I didn't know that was a thing, but you've put too much on your plate. That's what God's done with his grace for us. It's too much. He's lavished grace on us. Use that word sometime this next week.

11 In him, in Christ, we have obtained an inheritance. So we're in the family. The people who inherit things are in the family. This is the church having been predestined, chosen. That means chosen beforehand. That's what he says.

He chose us beforehand in a, in him, according to the purpose of him. So that's a guide or Jesus who works all things according to the counsel of his will. That phrase right there are the purpose of him who works all things according to the counsel of his will. That means that God does whatever he wants. That's what that means. According to him God who works all things according to the counsel of will of his will.

That means he does whatever he wants. He's in charge. When I was growing up in my house, there was a chair that was my dad's chair, and you could sit in it as long as my dad wasn't there. But he would walk up, and he would just do this with his hand. It was slight, and that meant get out my chair. And you knew that this is the only motion you wanted him to make with his hand.

The next motion was a little more aggressive. So he'd do that, and he'd do this. And that meant hand me the remote. And I remember very distinctly one day when he did that and this, and I hesitated. He said, boy? And I was like, I don't even like TV.

I didn't even know. Because you know how you're in a show, it's hard to just get out of it, but you get out of it. You're just like, yeah, this show, I don't even care how that character, I'm just, whatever. That was before DVR. It meant something. I just, it's God.

He's, to not be crass, he's the daddy. He does whatever he wants. That's how that works in his universe. So he works all things according to the purpose of his will. That's verse 11, 12. So that we who were the first to hope in Christ, hope means believe, put all our chips on, like everything on Christ.

Hope in Christ might be to the praise of his glory. In him you also, when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation and believed in him, were sealed with the promised Holy Spirit, who is the guarantee of our inheritance, until we acquire possession of it to the praise of his glory. Okay. That was dense and there was a lot there, but here's the point. What makes the church, the church didn't say anything really at all about what the people do. What it said was, here's what Jesus did.

That was it. Jesus makes we and us. Jesus does it. He accomplishes it on behalf of the church. Jesus does. If you look back at the verbs in that whole paragraph, it's Jesus who has blessed us in Christ, who chose us in him, who predestined us for adoption as sons, who has blessed us in the beloved, in him, in Jesus, we have redemption through his blood.

We have the forgiveness of our sins according to the riches of his grace that he lavished upon us in his wisdom and insight that he made known to us the mystery of his will, that people might be saved through God on a cross, that he set forth as a plan for the fullness of time, that he might unite all things in himself. In him, we have obtained an inheritance, having been predestined by him according to the purpose of him who works all things according to the counsel of his will. Like the, the point of that passage, what he's saying is that Jesus did this. Jesus accomplished this. God does what he wants and he rescued and made a people for himself.

That's the church. The church are the people throughout all time in history who have been distinctly loved and blessed by God. That's the first step is that God lavishes his grace and his love and his blessing onto us to make us his people. So distinctly loved and loved and blessed because everybody is loved and blessed by God. Let me explain how that works. Uh, blessed.

One is you don't suck in oxygen, wake up in the morning, walk around without being blessed by God. Uh, everybody has rainfall, has sunshine, gets to eat things, taste delicious food, unless you live in like England and everything tastes kind of the same, but it still nourishes you. Like everybody gets to, uh, gets to be blessed by God. Even the worst person who ever walked on the face of the earth, the most terrible, heinous person was blessed enough to have some people take care of them long enough for them to live past childhood, ate food, slept at night, got to take naps. Like, I mean, blessed everybody is.

And we're all loved by God. So the Bible says that God so loved the world that he gave his only son. Like he loved everybody enough to die for us, but it only is effective for, it only applies to the church. So that's the John three 16 for God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son, that whoever believes in him wouldn't perish and have everlasting life. So there's this, God loves everybody, but it's only going to apply to those who believe it's only going to be effective and effectual for those who believe it's like if I stood up and said, Hey, uh, we've got tickets, um, to the upcoming fireflies.

No lightning bugs. What are they called? Fireflies. They should be called the lightning bugs. That would just be way better. Cause you'd be like, go lightning bugs.

Like it just be, it would be better. But anyway, we've got tickets to the new fireflies games coming up in Lexington. All you got to do is show up to the will call and say Mill City and they'll give you a ticket. Like it's open to everybody. Who's going to enjoy the game? People who show up and ask for the ticket.

Jesus has died for everybody, but who actually gets loved and distinctly blessed by what he's accomplished? The church. And that's what makes the church, the church. So maybe you're saying, okay, hold on a second. Jesus does everything. What do I do?

And what am I supposed to do? If Jesus, well, he just does everything he chooses. He blessed. He predestines. He does all this mess. Like what, what do I do?

Well, let's answer that. Go to verse, go to chapter two. Uh, Paul's going to kind of keep talking to the Ephesians in a more specific way. Some of, some of the stuff's going on with them and talk to them about their church specifically. And then he gets more big picture in chapter two. So we're jumping down to chapter two.

So on the next page. All right. So, and you, okay, cool. We're going to get to see what we do. And you were dead in the trespasses and sins in which you once walked. That did not start off well for us.

So we were dead in our trespasses and our sins in which we once walked. So he's talking to the church and he's using this past tense, but this is what we brought to the table. This is what we did. Sins, trespasses that we were walking in, following the course of the world, following the prince of the power of the air. That's Satan following the spirit that is now at work in the sons of disobedience, among whom we all once lived in the passions of our flesh, carrying out the desires of the body and the mind. And we were by nature, children of wrath, like the rest of mankind.

Verse four starts with, but God. So he's changed the subject back to what God did. So let's talk a little bit about what we brought to the table. You want to know what you did, what you've done, what you've accomplished, what you get to bring to the table. You were dead in your trespasses and sins. You're a dead man walking, following after everybody else.

And he says, following after carrying out the desires of the body and the mind, most of us do a little bit of both, but a lot of times we pick one and stick with it. Here's what I mean. Some of you mostly just carry out the desires of the body. It's sensual. It's what you physically enjoy. So you're just going to be chasing after all of your urges, all of your desires.

You're going to be chasing after food. You're going to be chasing after sex. You're going to be chasing after alcohol and illicit drugs. Like your, your goal is let me just get to the weekend and I'll enjoy myself. Like I work so that I can party on the weekend so I can celebrate on the weekend. And all that is, is just what are my urges?

What are my, my current, what's my body chemistry saying to go for? And that's what I'm going for. You're carrying out the desires of the body. And some of us are carrying out the desires of the mind and that one's a little bit trickier. Some of you that's, I just want to be liked. So I'm actually going to be a really nice person, but my desire is to be well-received and have people praise me and to have people like me.

And so all you're doing is chasing after your own glory, your own name, your own friendliness. Some of you that's, I just want to be successful in work. So you're just, I'm going to work really hard and I'm going to do what I'm supposed to do. But ultimately you're just chasing after your own desires. Whatever your brain has said, this will be the best. So some people chase after money for the sake of their body because it's easier to get women and alcohol if you got stacks on stacks.

So they're chasing after money for the desire of the flesh, the desire of the body. But some people are going to chase after money for the desires of the mind, which is just, I just want to see the number on a computer screen and know it's in my bank account because it makes me feel warm inside. So I'm actually going to look really frugal. I'm actually going to seem like I have it all together, but all I'm doing is chasing after desire of the mind. Now, a lot of times we'll look at people who chase after just the fleshly stuff, just the body stuff and say, man, you need to get it together. Truth is the person who's chasing after just the mind stuff still doesn't worship God as God still has something else there.

That's if God is really God is really who he says he is, then he ought to be ultimate. And if it's just about following rules, then honestly, rules would be ultimate. God would be subservient to the rules, but that's not how it works. God is ultimate. The rules are his. So when we're chasing after anything, even if we're being a really good person and following all the rules, we've still placed something above God.

And if that was the most confusing thing you've ever heard, you might be one of the desires of the body people or I didn't say it well and nobody got that joke, which makes it better. So that's it. That's what we bring to the table. That's us. That's what you've accomplished, that you deserve death, that you deserve destruction. Honestly, every time we've chased after our own physical desires, every time we've chased after our own mental desires, what we're doing is we're looking at the creator of the universe and saying, Hey, hey, look at me.

I do what I want. I'm in charge. I'm going to, I'm going to do what I think's best. I'm going to do what I enjoy the most. I made a joke the other day when I was eating with my family, it was, we went to eat and hang out with, um, uh, my mom for her birthday. And there was a handful of people around the table and we were talking about Archer.

He's my son and he was acting up. My mom was saying that if he's acting up with me, he'd be worse with everybody else. And that's true. Cause he already knows that I'm the one who's going to be the most aggressive with him. Uh, and I just said jokingly, I was like, yeah, when I was growing up, I used to tell my dad what was up. And the reason I said that joke, because I knew everybody at the table would get it.

And there was like instant overwhelming laughter because they've met my dad and they know that never, ever, ever happened. And so I knew, I knew my audience. So I made a joke about me telling my dad what was up and they thought it was hilarious. And here's the truth. If my dad had come to me and said, you know, those little hand motions and hand me the remote. And I looked at him and said, no, it's not happening.

You have a seat. I'm going to finish my show. I wouldn't be here today. And my dad might be in a penitentiary. Like, I don't know. I don't know how that would go.

I saw the look in his eyes a couple of times. I got a guess of what it would be like. And so I never really gave that a shot. Here's the truth though. Every time we've carried out the desires of our flesh and of our mind, and we've acted like whatever I want to do is best. We've looked at the creator of the universe and said, Hey, not right now.

No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Hey, I'm talking. I'm gonna do what I want. I'm the daddy around here. So we've done if he really is God and really does exist and really does have claim over our lives because we belong to him.

That's what we've done. And I get uncomfortable thinking about doing that to my own dad, but we've looked at God and said, no, no, no, no, no. I'm in charge here. I put this in a really, really bad spot. So what happens for, but God being rich in mercy because of the great love with which he loved us.

He's rich in mercy. Some of you may be rich in money or know what that's like, or have a friend who's rich in money. Let me explain how that works. When you're rich in money, which we just say rich, rich, you don't worry about stuff. You got it covered. You wreck your car.

Something gets stolen. You just pay for it. You get in trouble with the law and get a lawyer. And we all have this to varying extents. Like some of us, you know, your shoe bust up, you can go buy a new shoe. But there are times in life when we're not rich in money.

You wreck your car and you look at it and go, well, it still rides. This is what my car looks like now. I kind of like the no bumper look. It makes me stand out. It tells people get away from this car. This car will strike you.

Some of you, your shoe blew up. Like there's just, it like was doing the talking thing when you walk and it flaps. And you know what you thought? That's my shoe. And it's going to stay my shoe because I can't buy another shoe. So you got some duct tape because it's cheaper and you wrapped your foot.

And that part of your shoe is a little bit more slickery, but it's okay. Like you worked it out. Some of you duct taped your car before you got a rear view mirror on one side, the side view mirror just taped on. Some of y'all don't have a side view mirror. And that tells people don't get on this side of the car because you, you didn't have the ability to cover it. God is rich in mercy, which means that the bill we ran up, he can cover the bill.

We ran up when we aggressively, wickedly, sinfully, evilly looked at him and said, no, no, no, I'm in charge. He has the ability to pay that bill because he's rich in mercy. And mercy means we don't have to get what we deserve. Why is he rich in mercy? Because of the great love with which he's rich in mercy. He loved us.

He overwhelmingly loves us. So when we rebel against him, he doesn't just go, fine, I'll crush you. It breaks his heart. And he says, I'm going to pay for this. I'm going to fix this. I'm going to fix this relationship, even though you don't deserve it, because I love you.

Some of you are in terrible relationships with your family. They treat you terribly and you keep doing stuff for me. And when people ask, why'd you do that? You say stuff like, man, it's my brother. That's my mom. What you mean is I love them.

I got their family. I can't just write them off. I got, I got to keep, I got to keep taking a beating on their behalf. And God looked at us in our rebellion and had overwhelming love and compassion and mercy for us. But God being rich in mercy because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ.

By grace, you have been saved. He raised us up with him, seated us with him in heavenly places in Christ Jesus. All right. Here's what happened. Because God is rich in mercy, he paid for our redemption. All you had was sin and death.

That's what you brought to the table. So Jesus took your sin and your death and rammed them into the grave with himself. He wrapped himself with them, clothed himself with them. And he took your death and your sin into the tomb with him. And then he rose again, leaving them there. And we get to be made alive when he came back to life.

If Jesus had just stayed dead, we'd all be in trouble. But Jesus came back to life, meaning that his payment for our sin and his death on our behalf worked. And he came back to life so that we can be made alive with him. Raised us up with him, seated us with him in heavenly places. That was verse six, seven. So that in the coming ages, he might show the immeasurable riches of his grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus.

The purpose of this was that he could show us how much more grace, how much more love, how much more mercy he has for us. Some of you think I'm just barely getting in. I'm just barely had my sin paid for. No, he's got so much that overwhelmingly covers us and welcomes us in. Immeasurable riches of his grace in kindness towards us in Christ Jesus. For by grace, you have been saved through faith.

And this is not your own doing. It is the gift of God, not a result of works so that no one may boast, meaning you didn't do it. For we are his workmanship created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them. What'd you bring to the table? Sin, death, and Jesus, because he's great, his great love, and he's rich in mercy paid for it that we could be welcomed in. That's the church.

The church is the group of people who have had God's grace and mercy lavished on them, who've had their sin and their death taken away. That's the church. That's who it is. That's the foundation for everything. And here's why you have to remember that. Sometimes you hear Christians say things like, I just feel so unworthy.

I just feel like I don't deserve it. And I've seen other Christians in a desire to be nice come alongside of them and say, no, you're great. No, no, no, no, no. God wouldn't have died for you if you weren't worth it. And that's kind of true, but mostly not. And so if you ever said to me, I just feel so undeserving and like I'm not worth it, I would come alongside you and I'd put my arm around you and go, yeah, that is so true.

I was thinking that about you yesterday. No, I wouldn't say that, but I would say, yeah, I would agree with you. Yes. Correct. You do not deserve it. Yes.

Correct. You are not worthy. If you deserved it and you were worthy, Jesus wouldn't have to die. Jesus died because you don't deserve it. You're not worthy. And he lavished grace on us, which means it was unearned, undeserved.

You weren't worth it, but he did it anyway, because he's glorious. So in chapter one, it says to the praise of his glory, to the praise of his glorious grace. So when you feel the most bottomed out, I don't deserve this. I haven't earned it. I'm not good enough. Yes.

Praise his glory. Praise his grace on your behalf. When you say to me, I feel so undeserving. I want to be like me too. That's what got us in. Jesus did it.

He's deserving. He's worthy. He needs, he should be blessed. We just get it because he's great. You didn't deserve it. You didn't earn it.

I feel that way too. And here's what's so beautiful about that. This is why if we don't get this, you won't be able to stick around, but if you get this, you, you, you've made it, you've got it, you're, you're ready. You realize that everybody in this room didn't earn it. So when they hurt you, you're not surprised they weren't good in the first place.

And when you sin against them, you can own up to it because what brought you to Jesus was your sin in the first place. If we all realize that we don't deserve it and only Jesus does, we're equipped with everything we need to be family from now on. That's it. It's when we forget one of those two things that we have some serious problems. When you start feeling like pretty good, I think God loves, you know, he loves everybody and then he loves the church more specially, but he loves me more, more specially. And then when someone sins against you, you think unacceptable because I earned it.

You need to, too. When you come tell me I did something wrong. What? That sounds true. You hurt my feelings. Probably.

What was it? Sorry. Sometimes it was on purpose. Sometimes it wasn't. I'm like, yeah, I shouldn't have said that. Yeah, I shouldn't have done that.

I'm here because I love because Jesus was good on my behalf. Jesus rescued me. That's us. That's the church. That's it. So you say, okay, well, what do I do?

Like, how do I respond to that? Well, he said it in chapter one. In him, you also, when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation, that Jesus died to pay for your sin and believed in him, you were sealed by the promise. Holy spirit. Belief. Put your trust in Jesus.

That's it. How do you know you're chosen? How do you know he's poured his love and grace out on you? Do you want to believe? Do you want to respond to that? That's it.

He bought all the tickets, show up to will call. That's basically like you just get to say, I trust this. I believe that all I've brought to the table is my sin and my brokenness. And I believe that he paid for it. That's it. I trust.

And then the Holy spirit comes inside of you and begins to change you from the inside out. So often I think we think I got to be a good person or I got to get my act together. I got to come to Jesus and clean myself up. You're, you're making a mockery of the cross. He came to clean you up. He came to pay for your sin.

You could just come to him and say, I trust that all I'm able to bring to the table is my messed up garbage. And he says, yeah, that's why I saved you. And you believe and you're saved. That's it. His grace is lavished on you, poured out on you. And then you're adopted into the family.

And then we get to talk about characteristics of what a church looks like. And that's where we'll go next week. We get to talk about what you begin to look like as you're a part of the family, because when you're adopted into the family, you're brought in and you start learning from the people around you. And when you have the DNA, you start just automatically being like them. So the Holy spirit comes in and changes you from the inside out.

And then you begin to learn from Jesus and you begin to learn from his people. That's how it works. My granddad was, um, he grew up and he never knew his dad. Like the one time he saw his dad, he was getting his haircut and a man came and stood by the window and just kind of looked in for a little while and turned around and walked off. And the guy cutting his hair said, Hey boy, you know who that was? He said, no, sir.

He said, that was your daddy. So my granddad ran to the window, watched him walk off. And that was it. But he, uh, my, my great granddad, Papa Holloman, who was his daddy. So my granddad's name was Phillips, but his adopted Papa Holloman.

And so my granddad, because he was adopted and because he had this other guy's DNA, like he had certain things that were affected by the DNA that was just automatically inside, like how tall he was going to be. Whiteness, like all the different things that come along with DNA, hair color, eye color, those kinds of things. And then he picked up stuff from Papa Holloman and Papa Holloman was a trip and did all kinds of stuff just to like mess with people. And that's been passed down from generation to generation, like sense of humor and messing with people. Like my Papa Holloman one time was at a, uh, they were at like Tweetsie railroad or some random place like that.

And there was a guy selling, um, uh, little cups of, uh, apple cider. And he was like talking about how they made it and all this kind of stuff. And then you could buy, you know, a cup for five cents or something. And he was like, does anybody have any questions? And Papa Holloman raised his hand. He said, yes, sir.

He goes, how much you get paid an hour? And his wife hit him and he's like, I meant about the, the, the apple cider. And he's like, you said, if I had any questions. And then he walked to the front of the line and said, let me see it. And took his little jug. It was in a jug.

Papa Holloman stuck his nose in it and went, it's too sweet. And handed it back to him. And everybody got out of the line. And I was like, no, no, no, no, I'm not having that. And my granddad picked up all this kind of stuff and he just would mess with people and make jokes, but he also had DNA. And the truth is the church has both that the Holy spirit comes inside of us and begins to change us.

And we get to grow in what it looks like to be the church and to follow Jesus. And that's what we're going to talk about for the next four weeks, what the church actually looks like. But here's what you need to know. The church has made the church by Jesus and Jesus alone. Not about what we do, not about how we act. But then once Jesus does that, we begin to have the same traits.

We begin to see it show up the same way that you've been talking to someone before. And you're like, well, I was like, are y'all brothers? And they're like, yeah. And you're like, okay, that makes way more sense with the facial expressions and the weird stuff you just said. Like you acted just like this person over here that I'm already friends with. Like it begins to happen like that way in the church.

Here's how we apply this today. If you're not a Christian, if you've never believed this, believe, put your faith in Jesus that all you bring to the table is your sin and that Jesus died to lavish grace on you, to make you his. And that's how you get to be in the church. That's the church. It's those people throughout all of history. If you're a Christian, put this on repeat.

You're a sinner who's been given grace. That's what makes you you. That's what changed you and made we and us. Like that's Jesus has accomplished that for you. So when you think, oh, I'm sinning, I'm messing this up.

Yes. You need grace. You need Jesus. And if you're a Christian or you're not a Christian, I would encourage you to hop into a community group as at least while we walk through this series. So you can begin to see what we're talking about.

You can actually experience it. Maybe if you're lucky, you'll even have someone sin against you and you can try to forgive them. It'll be good for your soul as you learn that the church is a group of sinners brought together by Jesus. Bianca's going to come back up here and we're going to sing. And here's what we're about to do. She's going to sing.

And I want the church, if you're a Christian, if you say I've placed my faith in Jesus and I've had his grace poured out on me, we're going to take communion. And I want you to remember as you walk back there that I was, we were dead walking after our own sin. That we were dead man walking. And then I want you to remember that Jesus died for you, that his grace covers you and that you've had grace poured out on you. And I want you to take communion, which is the representation of the broken body of Jesus and his spilled blood on your behalf. And it's that that makes you okay.

And it's that that covers you. And it's that that makes you his forever, not your behavior, not your goodness, Jesus. And if you're not a Christian today, don't take communion because it's for Christians. But I would invite you to place your faith in Jesus, become a Christian and then take communion. As the very first time that you celebrate that I trust that when Jesus died, he died for me and that his blood and his body cover me. And I'm placing my hope in him, not in myself, not in my own goodness, but in him that I might receive the riches of his grace and his mercy.

Let's pray. God, we thank you for your goodness. We thank you for your love. Pray, Lord, that we would celebrate today your grace and your mercy that's been poured out for us. And I pray, Lord, that that would be the foundation for us as a church, that we would know that your people are the people who have been redeemed by you, that you chose, that you love, that you lavished your grace on us. And that would be the foundation for everything that we do.

As we spend the next few weeks talking about what the church looks like, that we would understand the reason we look that way, the reason we operate that way, is because we have already been made new. We've already been born again into your family. We've already been adopted as sons. We praise you. We thank you. We love you.

In Jesus' name.