God Fulfills His Promises

God Fulfills His Promises

Chet Phillips

Transcript

Good morning. Grab your Bibles. Go to Genesis chapter 23. We'll be in Genesis chapter 23 and 24. My name is Chet. I am one of the pastors here.

Matt's going to stay up here and play music to make everything seem more dramatic and special. So we are walking through the book of Genesis. And we are today going to kind of close the book on Abraham and Sarah. We're going to end their lives. And, well, we're not. We're just going to read about it.

And we're going to see how the blessing and the promise shifts from them to Isaac and Rebecca. So, if you'll look, we're going to pick up in the beginning of chapter 23. I want to read this and then we'll kind of set the stage for what we're going to be doing today. But I think this helps us understand what we're looking at. Chapter 23, verse 1. Sarah lived 127 years.

These were the years of the life of Sarah. And Sarah died at Kiriath Arba, that is, Hebron, in the land of Canaan. And Abraham went in to mourn for Sarah and to weep for her. Okay. So Abraham is about 10 years older than her.

So he is, at this point, about 137. She is 127. And we don't have a good mental grasp as to how old that is and what that looks like. Because if we picture someone who's 127 or 137, the best I could come up with is the guy who used to do the Tales from the Crypt stories. And it's not a good representation. Because what happens with the ages in the book of Genesis is God creates the world new, fresh, perfect.

And then humanity sins. And when we sin, death enters the world. But it seems as if it kind of takes a while for it to fully begin to decay humanity and infiltrate humanity. And so the ages in the Old Testament, in the book of Genesis, start off extremely high. 400, 500, 900 years. And then they work their way down to by the end of the book of Genesis, we're kind of where we are.

In 80 is a good, right age. It's almost like the humanity kind of drops off the healthiness, the vivaciousness. And then eventually it kind of settles out and we hit kind of a homeostasis. We kind of hit an even path. And so at 127, we would say, goodness. Like that, that is extremely old.

But he ends up living to 175. So he lives for 40 years after this. And so she was old. The Bible treats her that way, speaks of her that way. But she wasn't what 127 would be for us.

So, but here's what happens. She passes. And this is the only female in the Bible that we are given her age at passing. This is showing her great honor. That Sarah, the mother of Isaac, the mother of Israel, is honored here. And here's what we're going to look at.

We're going to read chapter 23 and 24. And I want you to jump to the end of chapter 24 so that we can understand what's going on here. Because they seem, in some ways, like two separate stories. But at the end of chapter 24, in verse 66, verse 67, it says, Then Isaac brought her, that's Rebekah. We'll read about her in a minute. Into the tent of Sarah, his mother.

And took Rebekah. And she became his wife. And he loved her. So Isaac was comforted after his mother's death. So the beginning of chapter 23 starts off with the death of Sarah.

And the end of chapter 24 kind of bookends with the death of Sarah. And how Isaac moved on. That Sarah's tent was still there. But Sarah didn't live there any longer. But it stood as this vacant.

Maybe Isaac lived in it. But it was still considered Sarah's tent. It stands as this vacancy. And this cloud of grief is over these two chapters. And the chapter 23 and the end of chapter 24 are about three years apart. So that this season of Isaac missing his mother.

And this season of the noticeable lack of Sarah is a long time. And so what we want to, as we study this chapter, the question we're going to ask and what we're going to try to learn from this is, How do we move forward in grief? When we have buried a loved one. When we have stood, prayed, wept by a graveside. When we go back and it feels like this is still Sarah's house. But Sarah's not here.

How do we move forward? How do we walk in that? And if you'll see, as this is in life, There are things that business kind of things that have to be taken care of. There are seasons of weeping. There are seasons of longing. There are seasons of good things as we look through these two chapters.

But that's the question we're asking, Is how do we learn from them and how to move forward in grief? So let's pray and then we'll read this together. God, we thank you for how good you are. And we pray that we would honor you as we study your word. And that we might worship Jesus this morning. As we see him revealed to us in your word.

And revealed to us through how you interacted with the first people that you called. To begin to fulfill this promise. In Jesus' name, amen. So in the book of Genesis, it starts off good. Humanity rebels and God comes in and he promises right at the beginning that Satan's not going to win. Sin's not going to win.

Death's not going to win. That there's going to be an offspring that comes from Eve. That's going to right this wrong. And then everything gets worse. And then there's a flood. And God resets it with Noah.

And then everything gets worse again. And then he goes to Abraham and he basically says, Come, I'm going to make you into a people. I'm going to give you a land. And eventually this promised offspring is going to come through you. And that promise would not be carried out through anyone other than Sarah. So Sarah is this promised mother to this promised offspring, to this promised blessing.

And so Sarah passes. It says, Abraham went in to mourn for Sarah and to weep for her. So it's not just mourning, but he's also weeping. Meaning that mourning is a practice that you would do to honor the dead. But he actually weeps as well.

Meaning that he loved her. This hurt him. I don't think he was shaken by this as far as his faith. I don't think that he was crushed by this as far as how could God let this happen. She was older. That God had already provided the promise through her for Isaac.

But he was hurt. He was sad. It says, he went in to mourn for her and to weep for her. And Abraham rose up from before his dead and said to the Hittites, I am a sojourner and foreigner among you. Give me property among you for a burying place that I may bury my dead out of my sight. The Hittites answered, Abraham, hear us, my Lord.

You are a prince of God among us. Bury your dead in the choicest of tombs. None of us will withhold from you his tomb to hinder you from burying your dead. Abraham rose and bowed to the Hittites, the people of the land. The next part of this chapter, really most of this chapter, is given over to this transaction that takes place. So it says he rises up from his dead and he goes to the Hittites.

And it calls them repeatedly the people of the land. And his intro to them is, I am a sojourner and a foreigner among you. I have no land that is my own. He's nomadic. They travel around, but none of it really belongs to him. And he says, I need a place to bury my dead.

What he's asking for is a permanent place. Not a temporary place, but a permanent place to bury his dead. Now, it's interesting because you would usually bury your dead among their ancestors. This is actually a prime time for Abraham to just say, let's go home. Let's wrap it up.

Let's head back. Let's go bury her among our people. But he doesn't do that. He actually says she'll be the first buried among future people. Not the most recent buried among past people. He is leaning into the promise that God has given that they are the beginning of a nation.

And so he says that she needs a place that's a permanent place for her to be buried. And so she goes to the Hittites. And he says, I'm a foreigner among you, meaning they don't really have to sell him anything. He's coming humbly. He's also telling us how he understands himself. He's lived here for 60 years.

He still does not feel at home here. This is not his place. He is a nomad. And it calls the Hittites, the people of the land, the people of the land, the people of the land. Now, we're a pretty mobile society. One of the things we ask people when you first meet them is, oh, where are you from?

Because we just assume, not Colombia. And if they say, then we're like, oh, wow. Neat. What's that like? Like we just kind of assume a lot of times, and that's fine. It's not wrong to be from here, but it's just assumed that people travel around.

Now, for me, I don't know if y'all can tell this, I am white. And when I travel around in the U.S., most everything kind of feels at home to me. But there are certain people that come from minority groups or minority groups in the U.S. And maybe you understand a little more, can feel a little more what he's talking about here, what he feels. Because it's actually when you are the minority in a situation, you notice your minority status way more than the people of a majority status notice their majority status. Does that make sense?

So when I would hang out with only the African-American guys on my football team, I never noticed how white I was until those moments. And then it was like my whiteness felt like it was like I felt like I stood out. Because I wasn't catching all the references. I wasn't getting all the jokes. There were things they were saying and I was like, yeah, what? And so that's what he's saying is that he feels his I'm not of this people.

He feels it. And so he goes to the people of the land and he says, well, y'all sell me some land. And they say very graciously, no one will withhold from you a place to bury your death. But he doesn't want a borrowed tomb. He wants a purchased tomb. So what it says he does is he stands up and he bows down and he stands back up and he says.

Oh, and now I guess he sits back down because this is how business was done. And he says, please ask Ephraim, the son of Zohar, to sell me his cave that's at the back end of a field in Machpelah. Ephraim is there. So Ephraim says, I give you the cave. You can just have it. Abraham stands up.

He bows down. There's actually some interesting things in the Hebrew here where they consistently say, hear me, hear me, hear me. That's how they start things. Abraham doesn't start things that way until halfway through. He starts realizing this is how you're supposed to say it. So he'll start with his way and then he'll go and also hear me because he's trying to learn how you're supposed to do this.

It seems he's trying to incorporate what they're doing. But he stands back up, bows back down and says, thank you. I'll pay you for it. Now, we don't exactly know. So here's why it matters.

If he doesn't pay for it, it's borrowed. Eventually, after decomposition happens, after some number of some amount of time, some number of years, they can just take the cave back. They can move Sarah. They can use the cave for their own purposes. It won't be his. They would honor him by letting him use it, but it wouldn't be his forever.

And he wants something that's his forever. It's also possible Ephraim was just doing what they normally do, which is pretend to give it, but really have the intent of selling it. We don't really know, but that is still common today. I was asking Ben Johnson, who lived in Lebanon. I asked him, is that a thing they do? And he said, yes.

He said he actually, a couple of things he told me was, one, and he had to learn this, they will invite you to dinner, but they have to invite you three times for it to be real. So if you go visit someone, they'll say, oh, please stay for dinner. And you're supposed to say, no, no, no, I'm not hungry. I don't want to, or something, some nice response. Your house doesn't seem like I'd want to eat the food here, something like that. And then they say, please stay for dinner.

And then you say, no, no, no, no. And then they say, please stay for dinner. And on the third one, that means I'd really actually like for you to stay for dinner. Now, Ben is from Georgia, the Georgia in the U.S., not the Georgia over there. And so he did not know this. And so he would show up to someone's house and they would say, would you please stay for dinner?

And he'd go, all right, I will. And they were like, super, super rude guy. It just took me over there. I had no plans on him staying. He had to learn. He also said that they would still do the, oh, oh, don't worry.

I'll just give it to you for free. What happens is Abraham says, thank you for giving me this for free. And he says, but I'll pay you for it. And Ephraim responds, listen, what is a little field worth 400 shekels between me and you? And it says that Abraham listened to him and he weighs out the weight and he pays for it. So that Ephraim slides in there, oh, money between us, what's 400 shekels?

Like he just slides it in there like this isn't how this would work at a car dealership here. I'd like to buy this truck. I'll give you the truck. No, no, no. Let me pay for it. What's a truck worth $19,999 between us?

It was 0% financing for five years. Like we wouldn't do this, but he's been said they still do this in Lebanon that he actually left a restaurant one time, forgot to pay, came back and said, I forgot to pay. And they said, oh, I give it to you. It's free. And he said, no, no, no. I want to pay.

And he said, what's $15 between friends like us? So he was like, oh, okay, $15. Here you go. Which I, you know, when I, if I ever get to go visit, I'm just gonna be like, thanks. That's so nice. And just walk off.

I'm not gonna be there for that long, you know? So he buys the land. And then in verse 17, it says this. So the field of Ephron in Machpelah, which was in, which was to the east of Mamre, the field with the cave that was in it and all the trees that were in the field throughout its whole area was made over to Abraham as a possession in the presence of the Hittites before all who went in at the gate of his city. After this, Abraham buried Sarah, his wife, in the cave of the field of Machpelah, east of Mamre, that is, Hebron, in the land of Canaan. The field and the cave that is in it were made over to Abraham as property for a burying place by the Hittites.

Now that overdoes and overemphasizes where the field is, who it was sold from, where it was sold, who were the witnesses, who bought it, who's definitely bought. It's his. Which field? The field that used to belong to Ephron, son of Zohar in Machpelah. The field and all the trees and the cave is east of Mamre. Like it overdoes this.

And every time it brings it up, it does it again. And what is happening here is it is showing us that for the first time, Abraham and his descendants own a piece of the promised land. It's not a big piece of the promised land, but they own a piece of the promise. That Abraham, when Sarah died, did not say, let's go back. He said, let's go forward. Let's lean into the promise that God has made.

And let's see some of this begin to be fulfilled. And that's what happens. And so they bury Sarah. Now. Sorry, that was my now, but the first word is now. Now Abraham was old, well advanced in years.

And the Lord had blessed Abraham in all things. And Abraham said to his servant, the oldest of his household, who had charge of all that he had. So this isn't Isaac, although Isaac's 37 ish, 40 years old, right around now, he's not in charge of everything. The servant is. He brings him in and he says, put your hand under my thigh. That I may make you swear by the Lord, the God of heaven and the God of earth, that you will not take a wife for my son from the daughters of the Canaanites among whom I dwell, but you will go to my country and to my kindred and take a wife for my son, Isaac.

Like the servant said to him, perhaps the woman will may not be willing to follow me to this land. Must I then take your son back to the land from which he came from which you came? So Abraham's getting older and he's setting his affairs in order and we're seeing how he's leaning into the promises that God has given. So the first thing that he does is he acquires land to honor his wife, to bury his wife and to have a place for her forever in this land that God promised them. And now he's trying to work out getting a wife for Isaac. It's a little bit interesting that Isaac is not a part of this, but at the end of chapter 24, we find out that he needed to still be comforted at the loss of his mother.

And it's possible that Isaac was sad and wasn't handling things very well right now. It's possible. I'm reading that bit into the text. We know that he was still three years later. It was only after he marries Rebecca that it says that he's comforted. And he's the only guy that we have in the Bible that is not kind of immediately connected to the finding of his own wife.

So there are females whose dads kind of hand them over, but everywhere else we have a male, he's involved in some form or fashion. And Isaac is just hanging out and then gets a wife. Some of you think that's what will happen for you and best of luck to you. Sorry, that was mean. I shouldn't have said that. So we see, though, the servant has a very particular question.

It's a helpful question. He says, hold on. If she won't come, is Isaac to leave? That's an interesting question. It's a helpful question because he's saying, you know, I kind of understand the promises. I kind of understand the blessing.

Are we retreating on that to get Isaac a wife? If she won't come because it's far away, he says, does Isaac leave? We should all hold our breath for a second. And he says in verse 6, Abraham said to him, See to it that you do not take my son back there, the Lord, the God of heaven, who took me from my father's house and from the land of my kiddred and who spoke to me and swore to me to your offspring, I will give this land. He will send his angel before you and you shall take a wife for my son from there. But if the woman is not willing to follow you, then you will be free from this oath of mine.

Only you must not take my son back there. So the servant put his hand under the thigh of Abraham, his master, and swore to him concerning this matter. There's been some research done on why he had to put his hand under his thigh. The general consensus is just it was very intimate and it meant a solemn oath. That Abraham makes him promise in that way that he wouldn't forget and that it was a very solemn oath. But he says if she won't come, you're not in trouble.

You can come back. You're just not allowed to take Isaac there. But we see what Abraham is doing is he's leaning into the promises that God already gave him. He says the God of heaven told me that I'm going to give you this land to your descendants forever. And so Abraham says, I'm getting old. I've got a piece of the land.

We're in the land. We're not leaving the land. But we're going to have to have descendants here. And Isaac isn't married, so we need to find Isaac a wife. And the Canaanites are not a part of that. As best Abraham can tell, the Canaanites are going to be pushed out later because God tells him that in chapter 13 that they're going to be in chapter 15 that his descendants are going to be slaves in Egypt, but they're going to come back and they're going to push out all the people that live in this region.

And Abraham says, no, you've got to go find a wife from our people. That's how the bloodline continues. That's how the promise continues. And that's how we have a people to possess this land. So Abraham's just leaning into what God already told him.

The servant took 10 of his master's camels and departed, taking all sorts of choice gifts from his master. And he arose and went to Mesopotamia to the city of Nahor. Now that was about 500 miles away. It's one of the reasons why he takes camels because they travel a little better. It would have taken 21 days to a month or so to get there. He takes 10 camels, which is to show us something.

Well, it shows us something. He actually took them. It wasn't just written in there to show us something, but it shows us something, which is that Abraham was wealthy because camels weren't that common. And to have 10 of them and a bunch of people to send with a bunch of choice gifts, he looked like Aladdin rolling up in the Disney movie to Agrabah. He had a lot going on with him when he went. So, and he made the camels, this is verse 11, he made the camels kneel down outside the city by the well of water at the time of evening, the time when women go out to draw water.

And he said, Oh Lord, God of my master Abraham, please grant me success today and show steadfast love to my master Abraham. Behold, I am standing by the spring of water and the daughters of the men of the city are coming out to draw water. Let the young woman to whom I shall say, please let down your jar that I may drink. And who shall say, drink and I will water your camels. Let her be the one whom you have appointed for your servant, Isaac. By this I shall know that you have shown steadfast love to my master.

So here's what he does. He shows up, he gets to the city, but it's a city. Now it says it's the city of Nahor, which means this is where the guy lives. We're not necessarily sure it was named after him. It's just like he made it to where he lives. And so he shows up where he used to live and where Abraham's descendants were.

Nahor was his Abraham's brother. And he just sits out by the well where all of the women of the city, the unmarried women of the city would come out in the evening to draw water. And he just prays, Lord, please be good to my master. And I'm going to go over and I'm going to ask one of the ladies to give me some water. And if she gives me some water and then she offers on her own to water my camels, let that be the one that's supposed to marry Isaac. Now I do periodically have people ask me, does the Bible give helpful dating advice?

It doesn't give a lot, but if you want some from this passage, get your dad to send one of his friends to a well at one of your family reunions and pick up one of your cousins for you. Now what he was doing, I'll give you a second to write that down. What he was doing was he was going to the place where the type of woman who would be marriable for Isaac was. And he was seeking the Lord's wisdom in it. So if you want to steal a little bit, take that part.

Seek to actually find someone who is genuinely godly and marriable and pray for the Lord's wisdom and help and do it in an honorable way. Before he had finished speaking, Behold, Rebekah, who was born to Bethuel, the son of Milcah, the wife of Nahor. So Abraham and Nahor are brothers. This is Abraham's grandniece. Great niece. Yeah, grandniece.

Abraham's brother came out with her water jar on her shoulder. The young woman was very attractive in appearance. A maiden, that means she's young, whom no man had known. That means she was never married, has never slept with anybody. She went down to the spring. The author's telling us that.

He wouldn't have been able to pick up all of that from just seeing her. What he saw, I guess, was that she was very attractive. Then the servant went to meet her, ran to meet her and said, Please give me a little water to drink from your jar. And she said, Drink, my Lord. And she quickly let down her jar upon her hand and gave him a drink. When she had finished giving him a drink, she said, I will draw water for your camels also until they have finished drinking.

So she quickly emptied her jar into the trough and ran again to the well to draw water. And she drew for all his camels. The man gazed at her in silence to learn whether the Lord had prospered his journey or not. Okay. If we lived in this time frame, we would be so blown away right now. Camels can drink about 40 gallons of water if they're running on empty.

There were 10 camels, which means that it's up to possible that she drew 400 gallons of water. Which, if this is a 5-gallon bucket, that's 80 trips, y'all. That'd be like if I said, I'm moving into a new neighborhood, and I'm praying that the Lord would send someone, my neighbors, to come over and ask me when they see the moving truck if they can help me move. And this will be my new best friend in the neighborhood. And then I told you, they showed up. And you know what they said to me?

Back up. I'll get that piano by myself. And then they carried it up the stairs by themselves. We'd all go, all right, I know some things about this person now. Or you have a small piano. Or this person is humongous.

Like, that's what I learned. And what we just learned from her by her being, not her volunteering. It would be kind and nice for her to give him a drink. But for her volunteering, I'm going to water all your camels until they're done drinking. And she does it. He watched her for a long time.

And she diligently, over and above in generosity, served him and his men. We should be just like, oh, wow. Like, we just learned some things about Rebecca if you knew things about camels. So, he watches. Then it says, When the camels had finished drinking, the man took a gold ring, weighing a half shekel and two bracelets for her arms, weighing ten gold shekels, and said, Please tell me whose daughter you are.

Is there room in your father's house for us to spend the night? She said to him, I am the daughter of Bethuel, the son of Milcah, whom she bore to Nahor. She added, We have plenty of both straw and fodder and room to spend the night. And the man bowed his head and worshipped the Lord and said, Blessed be the Lord, the God of my master Abraham, who has not forsaken his steadfast love and his faithfulness toward my master. As for me, the Lord has led me in the way to the house of my master's kinsmen. Then the young woman ran and told her mother's household about these things.

In their mindset, most gods don't travel well. You have gods of locations. Abraham consistently says, the God, the God of heaven and the God of earth. Not the God of this land. Not the God of that land. Not the God of the river.

Not the God of this particular thing, grain and wine. No, he says the God of heaven and the God of earth. And he travels 500 miles and he prays, God, continue to be steadfast to my master. Not quite sure. I don't know how devout this guy was. We know that he's praying in his heart.

But I'm sure there's a little bit of like, are you here? It turns out he is. Abraham's description was good. Heaven and earth. All of it. And so Rebecca goes and it says, verse 29.

Rebecca had a brother whose name was Laban. Laban ran out toward the man to the spring. As soon as he saw the ring and the bracelets on his sister's arms and heard the words of Rebecca, her sister. Thus the man spoke to me. So she has a brother named Laban.

Laban runs out there when he sees the gold. Now, this would have been, I think, a bit if they were paying attention to how long she was gone, I think it took a little while to water the camels. So they're like, man, she's taking a long time. She rolls back up, blinged out with things that I don't know if they can afford or not, but she wasn't wearing them when she left. It's an odd trip to them. And then she says, I just watered a guy who has 10 camels.

And they said, 10 what now? And Laban looked at the rings and stuff and said, I'm going to meet this guy. And he just trots on outside. So he goes over and he says, come on in, come on in. Like, you know, they're welcoming him. They're being hospitable and generous.

But it's also like, who is this guy? What is happening here? So they bring him inside and they say, come, sit, eat. And he says, he actually kind of breaks protocol. He says, no, I'm not eating anything until I say all the stuff I have to say. And they say, say it.

And so he retells the entire story we just read. The chapter is basically written out in duplicate. He highlights some different things. He points out some different things. But he retells the whole story.

He says, my master Abraham called me into him and he told me to promise. Oh, first he starts off with who Abraham is. I'm his servant. I'm following him. And he is very wealthy. He says, he has camels and donkeys, gold and silver, maidservants, menservants.

God has blessed him richly. And he has a son whom Sarah bore to him in her old age. I think he's gassing Isaac up a little bit. He says, God's, he said, Abraham's going to leave everything to him. So he says, I'm here representing Abraham who's super blessed, very rich, who has one son.

And he highlights that Sarah bore him in his old age. And that's very helpful because Nahor is Bethuel's father. Which would mean that if Isaac was born about the same time as Bethuel, he would be saying to Sarah, to Rebecca, I know a guy who's as old as your dad. And given the age gaps here, that could be a big gap. So he's like, he was born when Sarah was really, really old.

So he's saying closer in age to you. He's just highlighting that out and he's saying, and God and Abraham's going to bless him with everything that he has. And Abraham made me swear to come here and find him a wife. So at this point, I'm sure the story was like, oh. And then it gets deeper because he says, and so I showed up and I prayed that the lady I asked to give me a drink of water would not only give me a drink, but would offer to water my camels. At that point, they were all like, oh, she's going to, oh, no, that just happened.

That's what I did. And then he says, he ends with this. He tells the whole story. And then he says. He tells him, before I'd finished speaking, she showed up. We did this.

She did this exactly. And then he goes to verse 49. Now then, if you are going to show steadfast love and faithfulness to my master, tell me. And if not, tell me that I may turn to the right hand or to the left. He tells his whole story. He says, it seems as if God's at work here.

It seems as if this was planned. He tells him specifically. Abraham told me if she didn't come with me, I'm not in trouble. So he's like, this is on y'all. You don't have to feel bad for me. He lays this all out.

And he says, now tell me, are you going to show steadfast love to my master or not? Because I've got to go one way or the other. And I don't think he's necessarily meaning I've got to go home. I think he's also meaning I'm here to find someone who belongs here who's willing to go with me back. So if you don't want to marry him, although it seems like maybe you should, I'm just throwing that in there.

If you don't want to, I'm going to go somewhere else. Then Laban and Bethuel answered and said, the thing has come from the Lord. We cannot speak to you bad or good. What they're saying there is it's not up to us. We're not going to do a pros and cons list if God's leading in this. Behold, Rebecca is before you.

Take her and go. Let her be the wife of your master's son as the Lord has spoken. When Abraham's servant heard these words, he bowed himself to the earth before the Lord. You see how much this guy loves the Lord. He's constantly praying to him. And every moment when he gets a chance, he's just thanking him.

And finally, it just works. It worked out. And he just lays down on the earth just before the Lord. And it says, the servant brought out jewelry of silver and gold and garments and gave them to Rebecca. He also gave to her brother and to her mother costly ornaments. And he and the men who were with him ate and drank and spent the night there.

When they rose in the morning, he said to them, send me away to my master. Her brother and her mother said, let the young woman remain with us for a while, at least 10 days. After that, she may go. They basically just said, at least 10 days, maybe longer. She needs to stay for a little while. We can't like he just showed up that night.

She just fed your camels last night. We're not. She's not leaving right now. But he said to them, do not delay me since the Lord has prospered my way. Send me away that I may go to my master. And they said, let us call the young woman and ask her.

They called Rebecca and said to her, will you go with this man? And she said, I will go. This also shows us some things about Rebecca here. First of all, they said, let's ask her. That doesn't always happen in this culture. You saw that her dad and brother got to pick whether or not she would marry him.

But now they're saying, hey, come here. Are you willing to do this? And she, like Sarah before her and like Mary after her, is willing to step out in faith where she feels like the Lord is moving. And so she says, I will go. So they sent away Rebecca, their sister and her nurse and Abraham's servant and his men.

And they blessed Rebecca and said to her, our sister, may you become thousands of ten thousands. And may your offspring possess the gate of those who hate him. They bless her before she leaves. And we know that that blessing comes true because God's already promised to bless this family and to bless the seed of Isaac. And so they leave. And what we see in these two chapters are two beautiful pictures of this promise stepping forward.

That God says, I'm going to bless you with people to possess this land. And both of those step forward in that Abraham, in his waning moments, leans into what God has promised. Believes and trusts what God has promised. And it's taken us a while to get here for Abraham. I believe fully as he was going to sacrifice Isaac, he was trusting the Lord fully. And we see after that, he doesn't waver.

He knows this is what's happening. He says, you don't take Isaac back. He stays here. We're going to own this land. We're going to lean into this. And he trusts the promise.

Now, Isaac had returned from Be'er, Laha, Roy, and was dwelling in the Negev. And Isaac went out to meditate in the field toward evening. He didn't have a wife and kids at this point. He had a lot of free time on his hands. So he's just getting to sit out there by himself and think.

And he lifted up his eyes and saw, and behold, there were camels coming. And Rebecca lifted up her eyes. And when she saw Isaac, she dismounted from the camel. It's a sign of respect. And she said to the servant, who is that man walking in the field to meet us? And the servant said, it is my master.

So she took her veil and covered herself. And the servant told Isaac all the things that he had done. Then Isaac brought her into the tent of Sarah, his mother, and took Rebecca. And she became his wife. And he loved her. So Isaac was comforted after his mother's death.

And so what we learn, Isaac was 40 when he married her. So this is about two to three years after his mother passed. He takes her into Sarah's tent. It was still Sarah's tent. And what we see is the transition of matriarchy from Sarah to Rebecca. And the story shifts from Abraham and Sarah to Isaac and Rebecca.

Because God's promise is going to continue. And we see this beautiful transition and handoff. In this time of grieving, in this time of sorrow, and in this time of pain, Abraham, and through his leadership, Isaac, lean into the promises that God had already laid out. They trust him that they can move forward. Rather than retreating, Hebrews 11 says that if they had been looking for an opportunity to return, they would have found one. They had been looking to go back home.

They could have found an opportunity. There was plenty before them. But they trusted and walked out in faith, even though they only saw the promises from afar. And so that's what we see. I want to tell you something beautiful that happens here as we carry this story out. First, Isaac and Rebecca have children, and the promise continues.

They give birth to Jacob, who's renamed Israel, who gives parentage to all the tribes of Israel, and out of them directly comes this entire people. We actually begin to see in Genesis some of the promises fulfilled, where they're going to be a blessing to the nations, and ultimately a blessing to all the nations through Christ. And Sarah's tomb becomes the first flag planted in the ground in the promised land that they all look to. Moses is the one who's writing this, and he's writing it to a people out of the Exodus, wandering in the wilderness, headed to the promised land. And do you know why he overemphasizes this field, why he overemphasizes this cave?

He's pointing out to the people of Israel as they read this, at the very first readers of this text, that we still own land that was never sold back. That there's a cave that houses the bones of our ancestors that was claimed by the death of Sarah. Chapter 25, verse 7 says that Abraham died, and he was buried there. We're told later that Isaac and Rebecca die, and they're buried there. That Leah dies, she's buried there. That Jacob dies, he dies in Egypt.

And he says, don't you bury me here. He says, cart me on back. I'm getting buried at the field. And he says, Ephron, son of Zohar, who Abraham bought from the Hittite. He lays it all out again. He says, you bury me there.

And the people of Israel had this tomb that they looked to for their hope and for the beginning of the fulfillment of the promises, that this people of this bloodline could look at that tomb forever. Remember, that by her death, Sarah moves the covenant forward and that through the suffering, we see that there was purpose. And church, we have a better tomb to look to. Not filled with the bones of ancestors, scandalously, outrageously empty. That there is a tomb that in the midst of our grief and in the midst of our cloudy, tear-filled eyes that we can gaze upon when we can't see an inch in front of our faces, we can look backwards to a tomb where the God of the universe walked out in a hope-filled resurrection to assure for us that the promises are forever ours, claimed by him through his suffering and his death, and that we know as Christians that there is purpose and hope in the midst of suffering.

That death does not win. That grief does not conquer. That as the people of Israel looked to this tomb as a stake in the ground, as the place where the flag was planted, that they knew that they could hold on to, that God would fulfill these promises, that their bloodline would continue, we of a new bloodline given to us through the blood of Christ have a better tomb to look to in the midst of heartache and pain. So that our faith can move forward when we can't see anything else. We can trust that he's good, that he loves us, that what has rocked us and changed the nature of our lives won't ultimately win, and won't ultimately conquer us.

Matt's going to come back up here. As we close out our time, I want to show you where 1 Peter talks about this. Peter talking about this says, Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. According to his great mercy, he has caused us to be born again. Meaning that we have a new bloodline through the blood of Christ, that we are in this lineage. Not just sons of Abraham through faith, but sons of God through the blood of Christ, through the adoption given to us through the atonement.

Born again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead. to an inheritance that is imperishable, undefiled, and unfading, kept in heaven for you. So that when we don't know what tomorrow will look like, and we don't know whether we'll be able to get out of bed, and we don't know if we'll be able to make it to work, and we don't know if we'll be able to utter a word without our face distorting and tears running down our face, we know what the ultimate tomorrow will look like. We know that we have an inheritance that is more beautiful than this promised land, that is more eternally secured, a tomb that is empty, that marks forever our hope, because Jesus rose from the grave will rise. And so we look to Him in hope and in longing, and we know that in the midst of everything, we can move forward.

That we can put one foot in front of the other, holding on to the fact that eventually grief doesn't win. We won't be swallowed up in death, but we'll be swallowed up in the victory of the resurrection of Christ. For those of us who have repented and placed our faith in Jesus, this is imperishably, undeniably, irrevocably true. And if you're in here this morning, and you are in the midst of a season of grief, I would encourage you to look at Jesus walking out of the tomb. to stare as best you can into that truth, so that you might be reminded that this won't win, that He's good and He loves you.

And if you're in here today and you don't know Christ, you do not know what I'm talking about. And you do not have this as a reality, but you can. If you'll run to Him and place your faith in Him and say, I want that and I need that, and I need you to change my heart, I need you to save my soul, He will because He saves us based off of His good work, not ours. And I would encourage you to do that today. In a minute, Matt's going to begin to sing. We can sing with him.

We're also going to take communion together as a church, which is where we take bread and the cup, and we remind ourselves of Jesus' broken body and His blood shed on our behalf, that we might have life and freedom and hope, that He conquered death for us so that we don't have to die in hopelessness, but that we get to be buried in hope of a resurrection and a life with Him. If you're a Christian, I would encourage you to spend some time praying, repenting where you need to repent, reminding yourself of His goodness, and then taking communion. And if you're not a believer, this is for believers, it's not for you, so we'd encourage you to pray and to sing and place your faith in Jesus if you never have. Let's pray.

God, we thank You for Your grace. Thank You for the hope that we have through the cross and the resurrection, that we are brothers and sisters in a new bloodline, that we are brothers and sisters of an empty tomb, and that our hope is forever secure because it's a living hope through the power of the resurrection of Christ. In Jesus' name, Amen.