Psalm 86 -Prayer
Transcript
All right, how are we doing this morning? Okay. We're going to be teaching on lament at some point in the Psalms, so y'all just go ahead and get ready for that. It'll help you be really mournful and sad. Well, as we get started this morning, I want to take a second and I want you to kind of picture something with me. So it's Monday morning, first day of the work week, first day of the school week.
Some of you work retail. It's Monday. It's just a day. And you decide, I'm going to do it. I'm going to do it, and this time it's going to work. I'm going to do it, and this time it's going to be good.
I'm going to set my alarm a little bit earlier. I'm going to get up before I have to. I'm going to wake up before I've got to start getting ready. I'm going to wake up before the kids do. I'm going to wake up before my roommates do. I'm going to wake up before I have to get to class or to work.
I'm going to do it this time, and it's going to be good. I'm going to pray. And I don't know for you, so you set your alarm. You get up. Maybe it's 30 minutes earlier. Maybe it's 45 minutes earlier.
I don't know how quickly you move in the morning or how much time you thought. Maybe you were like, I'm going to pray, and you set your alarm 10 minutes early. I don't know what you went for. And you went to your favorite chair. You went to maybe your desk. You went to just the living room, went and sat on the couch.
Maybe you went and sat at your kitchen table. Some of you, maybe you have a front porch, and you can kind of look out at some trees or something. Maybe you went out on your porch. I don't know your morning. I don't know what you went for. Maybe you got a cup of coffee.
Maybe you got one of those fancy, like, one-cup things. Maybe you're the person who brews, like, a whole pot for yourself. I don't know if you do redneck coffee. Some of y'all are holding Mountain Dews in the morning or some jolt or something. Some of y'all, you know, maybe you got a cigarette in your hand. I don't know what your morning looks like.
But you got up. You're going to read. You're going to pray. You're going to do this. You're finally going to pray, and it's going to be good. You're going to actually pray good stuff, and God's going to listen.
He's going to respond, and there's going to be this conversing, and there's going to be relationship. And there may be even some moments where it's like hands in the air. You don't ever do that, but maybe you will this morning. It's going to be good actual prayer the way that other people pray. The way you have never prayed, but the way that other people pray, you're certain of it, and you're going to do this. So you go.
You got up. That was hard. You did it. Man, you feel like almost the battle is won at this point. I am awake, and I have time. You go to your chair.
You go to your table, and you sit, and you start praying in your head, and you realize pretty quickly that you did not start very good sentences, or maybe you don't realize really quickly, and about four minutes later, you realize you're just thinking about nothing, or you're replaying an old TV show in your head, or you've started just thinking about your day, so you decide, okay, I'm going to pray out loud. And you say, God, and then you realize that volume sounds weird for how early it is, and the fact that you're by yourself, so you go, God, like, sorry, like it was too loud, and then you're like, and you start praying some more, but then you get mumbly, and you go back to your head, and you get distracted again, and then you're like, no, I need something to wake me up, so you get your computer out, you're going to play some music, or you get your phone out to play some music, something, you've got to have some background noise. And so ten minutes later, you're checking email, or you're on Facebook, and you realize, I should never have gotten this out. Some of you didn't even intend to get it out, it just magically appeared in your hand.
There was three seconds where your brain was still, so your hand was like, I know what to do, and just stuck it, went down and got your phone for you. Some of you used it as your alarm, so that was the first thing. You didn't even get to your chair, you were already flipping through stuff. Eventually, time's up, and you feel like, I really should have slept that extra 30 minutes. And in some ways, you may be a little more frustrated, a little more disappointed. I don't know, some of you, maybe you actually prayed.
Maybe you fought through and you prayed, but it ended up being kind of just like a list of things. You just kind of listed out maybe the things that were going on in your day. It was, maybe you prayed about just some stuff you're worried about. Like, maybe you prayed and you're like, cool, I prayed, but you leave still feeling like, I didn't quite, there wasn't, like I didn't feel the fellowship. Like that Bible word that people use that means some sort of like good, potent, juicy friendship. Like, I didn't feel that with God.
I didn't, I didn't, I didn't commune with the Holy Spirit. These words that the Bible uses, like I didn't feel that. Some of you were like, I didn't even really pray. So I'm not surprised that I didn't feel that. And so what we're going to do today is going to be a good bit different than, than normal Sundays for us. It's not, not, not crazy different, but it's, it's going to be different.
And I got to explain why. One of the, one of the reasons we're going to do, what we're going to do today is, is that I have just described to you many a morning of my own. And I leave feeling like I'm the only person who does not know how to pray. And then I'll read about these other people like Luther and Calvin and Mueller and missionaries and all this kind of stuff. I read this one about this guy and it was like, he, he, he went in, he told somebody who was helping him. He said, look, I'm going to go pray for an hour.
Come get me after an hour. And the guy went in after an hour and saw him and he was just, just too into it. And so he just left him alone. And finally, after four hours, he was like, okay, it's been too long. And he went and got him and said, hey. And the guy said, man, as soon as he tapped him, this is a missionary.
And he got up and said, man, an hour really flies when you're, when you're praying and relating to God. And the guy was like, yeah, it was four hours. I read that story. And do you know how depressed I was? Like, I've, I've, this is, I've set an alarm on my phone for three minutes. So that when it went off, I could remember that I was supposed to be praying and had gotten distracted.
So that I could pray for about a minute before my brain's like, ping, ping, ping, ping, ping, just off on something else. And I, I have, at times feel like I'm the only person who doesn't know how to pray. Like, I feel like everybody else has got this and everybody else is praying well. And, and other, other pastors, they wake up at four in the morning and they go pray and they, they sweat and tears roll out of their face. And then they just go and seize the day. And, and it's just not like that.
And, um, and I'm willing to bet that a lot of us feel like this. Anybody who has tried to pray has found it exceedingly difficult. Anyone who's spent any time actually trying to pray has found it difficult to get started, to get going, to continue. Um, and so what we're going to do today is what we've been doing in our Psalm series. You can go and grab your Bible and flip to Psalm 86. Um, if you have one of the white Bibles, it'll be on page, uh, 283.
And if you don't own a Bible, we just encourage you to take this one with you. It's our gift to you. We want you to own a Bible. What we're going to do is we're going to have the Psalms help teach us how to pray. They're going to help teach us how to pray. And, and we're going to approach this a little bit differently, uh, than normal.
So when you went to learn how to drive a car, and some of you haven't gotten there yet, but I'm going to explain a process that you'll get to do at some point. Most of us though have, when you went to learn how to drive a car, you, you got the, the book, the little, you know, you had to pass the like written test first. And so they were like questions like, what do you do at a stop sign? Uh, every single one of us skipped the, what to do at a four-way stop because no one in South Carolina knows how to do that. I'm assuming that paragraph says, pull up, get uncomfortable, point to someone and say, anyway, um, and I know we don't know how to do it because my wife and I argue about what's actually correct.
I'm going to get a book. I've just realized I need to read this and figure it out. So you read the book. You remember most of it. You took the written test. At some point, someone sat you in a car, pointed to things, said that one gives it gas.
And that means it's going to go forward. That one's the break. That's a clutch. Uh, you know, they explained how to do things. And then at some point you just got in the car and they sat next to you and you drove. And in order to learn how to drive, you, you had to stall out.
You had to grind gears. You had to hit the brakes way too hard. Or you had to be going up towards a stop sign that you apparently couldn't see while the driving instructor was over there tapping the floor or your parent was. Or they had their own brake. You remember that one? And they could put the brakes on it for you.
And so you were driving along. And that was one of the things that happened with the driving instructor. With me, I'd be driving and all of a sudden the car would stop. And I'd be like, what's wrong? And he'd be like, you don't stop appropriately. That's how I learned the word impetuous.
My driving instructor said, you are impetuous. I said, what does that mean? He says, you try to make a decision quickly and decide just to punch the gas. And that was at that moment I learned why I was a bad quarterback in high school. Because I think he might be covered. Throw it.
Interception. He was. He was covered. I shouldn't have done it. At some point though, you had to get in the car. And you had to drive.
And what we're going to do today is we're going to show you how the Psalms, how you can use the Psalms to sit next to you and help train you in how to pray. You will mess stuff up. You will pray bad theology. You will pray things that are not even remotely close to being true about God. But the Psalms are going to train you.
What I'm saying is there are going to be times where you stall out or you grind gears or you run a red light. But the Psalms get to sit next to you and hold your hand and train you in how to pray. And that's what we're going to do today. We're actually going to practice that. We're going to walk through it. And I'm going to show you how you can use the Psalms to train you how to pray.
The reason I say it's different is that usually we read a passage and we explain what it's talking about. And we talk about it. Maybe we give some principles or some points of application. We're going to do less explaining today and more saying you might pray like this after you read that. You might pray like this just to try to help you see how you can actually sit and do this. And so really what we're trying to accomplish is I'm trying to sneak into your house on that Monday morning and stick this in your hands.
So that your phone cannot magically get in your hands because something is already in your hands. And so that you have a guide and a help for learning how to pray. I want to read a quote because this helps my brain so much. It's from Tim Keller's book on prayer. And this is a quote from Tim Keller's book where he's quoting someone else. He's quoting Eugene Peterson and then he's like interacting with what Eugene Peterson says.
So he says, Eugene Peterson reminds us that and now he's quoting Eugene Peterson. Because we learned language so early in our lives, we have no memory of the process and would therefore imagine that it was we who took the initiative to learn how to speak. However, that is not the case. Language is spoken into us. We learn language only as we are spoken to. We are plunged at birth into a sea of language.
Then slowly, syllable by syllable, we acquire the capacity to answer. Mama, Papa, bottle, blanket, yes, no. Not one of these words were a first word. All speech is answering speech. We are all spoken to before we spoke. And then Tim Keller goes on.
He says, in the years since Peterson wrote, studies have shown that children's ability to understand and communicate is profoundly affected by the number of words and the breadth of vocabulary to which they are exposed as infants and toddlers. We only speak to the degree we are spoken to. They go on to argue. Or Keller goes on to argue that that is what the scriptures get to be for us in prayer. We get to plunge ourself into the word and allow it to train us in how to speak and how to pray. And how to talk to God, to give us the words first so that we can answer, so that we can respond.
God has first spoken to us. I have a two-year-old. And when he started trying to learn how to speak, my wife and I talked about it. We had to sit down and I told her, we are not going to talk to our son. I want him to figure it out on his own. We're not going to let other people talk to him.
We go see family and they'd be like, hey, buddy, shh. I couldn't even tell him why I shushed him. Because I'm not allowed to talk around him. That's crazy. Nobody does that. You talk to a kid like it understands you.
It does not. You just say things. Is that offensive? He, her. They do not. You talk to the child like they understand what you're talking about.
I remember the first time my son responded with a full sentence. It scared me because I was not prepared for that. You get so used to them just kind of being there. But not. I was. I walked in the room.
I said, boy, where's your mama? He said, I don't know where mama is. And I was like, oh, God. There's a tiny human in my house. And even after that, he still will at times look at me and go, Jim and I'm the shoes. And I'm like, Jim and I'm the shoes.
And I'm like, Jim and I'm the shoes. Isn't where I got. I got shoes. He's like, uh-huh. Like, what about shoes? Jim and I'm the shoes.
And I have to sit and try to figure this out. And what I'm saying is there are going to be times where you're trying to pray. And you're looking at God and you're saying, Jim and I'm the shoes. And I'm not talking about a prayer language. I'm talking about you're praying bad theology. It doesn't make any sense.
What you said was not even remotely close to being coherent. But God loves you and is going to listen to you. And the Psalms are going to train you. So, yes, for a while in prayer, you will pronounce hippopotamus, hop-a-piss. But that's okay.
It's okay that while you pray for a while, you don't quite get it. But you're going to use God repeatedly looking at you and saying the correct words. Repeating it, looking at you and calling more out of you and speaking into you in order for you to learn how to pray. Some of us have completely removed the Bible from our praying and then wonder why we have such a hard time praying. It's because we're not allowing God to speak into us first so that we might respond. And so what we're going to do today is I'm going to show you how you can, on a Monday, get up earlier.
And some of you, that's crazy talk. Stay up later. Your brain doesn't work in the morning. That's fine. It's not God's more listening in the morning. Find a time to sit, open the Bible, and use the Scriptures to train you how to pray.
So we're going to practice that this morning. We're going to actually read, and I'm going to say, here's kind of what David's saying. And then I'm going to say, but maybe this is what you would pray. And that's how we're going to talk through it. And we'll kind of try to keep moving. But it's just going to be, here's what David's saying, but here's maybe how you would sit if you open this Psalm.
And we're using Psalm 86 to train you how to pray. Here's how you would pray. And you can use all of Scripture to do this. The Psalms are easier because they are directed towards God, most of them. There are places in Paul's letters where he's talking about prayers. There are places in Paul's letters where he's talking about theology.
It's easier. You can use all of Scripture, though. Another really good one to use is the model prayer that Jesus gives just to go through his words. Father in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Sorry.
I memorized the King James Version. Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. To go through that and lead it, let it lead you in prayer. But we're going to use Psalm 86 this morning. I'm going to pray as we get started because that seems wise. And then we'll start.
God, we ask for your help that we might become a praying people. We ask for the humility to realize that you will first speak to us before we will ever appropriately, correctly, and joyfully speak to you. That relationship begins on your side. But we ask, Lord, that in that, as you have first spoken and as you have first worked to relate to us, we pray that we would respond well and that you would train us well through your word. In Jesus' name. Amen.
Psalm 86. At the top, it says it's a prayer of David. So this is David. He's praying. We're going to read his prayer. And we're going to try to watch and listen and try to see how we might would respond to God.
So if you sat down, you opened it up, you've got your Bible. You're going to read a little bit and then you're going to pray, whatever it makes you think, whatever it leads you to say. That's what we're trying to do this morning is for you to see how this process would work. So incline your ear, O Lord, and answer me. For I am poor and needy. Preserve my life, for I am godly.
Save your servant who trusts in you. You are my God. Okay, let's stop there. Like I said, I'm going to do a little bit of saying. Here's what he's talking about and then I'm going to show you how you might pray it. So this is David.
He's praying. He starts off by just saying, God, listen, I'm poor and needy. Listen to me. I have nothing to offer you. And then he says, preserve my life. He actually had people at this time trying to kill him.
So he means that very literally. Help me not be murdered. Preserve my life, for I am godly. Save your servant who trusts in you. You are my God. So David starts off by saying, God, I actually have nothing to offer you.
We see a really beautiful principle for prayer here. Because he starts off with humility. I'm poor and needy. Like if you're going to do anything, it's going to be you doing it. It's not because I earned it. It's not because I'm valuable.
I just, I'm poor and needy. But then, then he says, preserve my life, for I am godly. Save your servant. You are my God. So then he says, I'm poor and needy, but I belong to you.
I'm your servant. I'm trying to follow you. Save me. And he has this like humble confidence. And so maybe you start your prayer like that. Maybe you start off by saying, God, there's nothing in me that would make you have to respond to me.
Maybe my sin has separated me from you that I don't actually deserve for you to listen. But I've placed my faith in Jesus and now I know I belong to you. That you are my God and I ask you to answer and to be good to me. Maybe that's how you pray, how you begin your prayer. But it's you read these words and then you just think about what they make you think.
Maybe as you're getting started in the morning, you're just going to read the words back. Read them out loud. Pray them out loud. Let's keep going. Verse 3. Be gracious to me, O Lord, for to you do I cry all the day.
Gladden the soul of your servant, for to you, O Lord, do I lift up my soul. So he says, be gracious to me, which means give me what I don't deserve. Be good to me beyond my, what I've earned. So he's not saying pay me my wages. He is saying just give me some money. Like he's not saying here's what I've earned.
I punched the clock. You owe me. He's just saying be good to me. Like just because you're good and you're wealthy and you're rich and you have like be gracious. That's what grace means, that you get something you don't deserve. Something good that you don't deserve.
And then he says, gladden the soul of your servant, for to you, O Lord, do I lift up my soul. I love that he says gladden the soul of your servant. Do you know why he says that? Because he wasn't glad. There was no joy in him right now. He's mournful.
He's sad. And so he's asking God. He said, I'm bringing you my soul. And I'm asking you to bring back some happiness, to bring back some life, to bring back some joy. And so maybe you focus in on that. Maybe that's true for you that moment when you go to read this, you realize I'm not happy.
There's no joy in me right now. And you just begin to ask God to gladden your soul, to take away the tears. Maybe you're fine, but you pray it anyway. You're like, God, make it better. Bring joy to my soul, even though I'm doing okay right now. He says, for to you, O Lord, are good.
For you, not for to you. For you, O Lord, are good and forgiving, abounding in steadfast love to all who call upon you. Give ear, O Lord, to my prayer. Listen to my plea for grace. In the day of trouble, I call upon you, for you answer me. So you just read through that?
You're sitting there? And you see what David is doing is he's looking at God and saying, here's what you're like. Here's who you are. You're good. And you have steadfast love for all who come to you. Like he's just saying, this is the person that you are.
And this is one of the things that happens in Scripture all the time. And it happens in the Psalms a lot. They remind God who he is. They just say, this is what you've said about yourself. This is what you've said you're like. And I don't believe it's that God has forgotten.
But this is a normal, healthy, good way to pray. To say, I'm banking on you being who you said you are. It's a little bit like if you tell a five-year-old, if he eats his meal, he can have cake afterwards. He's never eaten the meal and forgotten about the cake. And he'll say, but you said, if you say, if you behave here, we'll do this. Or any kind of promises.
Like they remember that. They can't remember anything you told them. But your children will remember the good promise you made. And you get to go to that. You get to go to God and say, you're like this. You said you were going to do this.
You said this is who you are. And so in that moment, David's reminding himself. But he's also reminding God. So maybe for you, that is a reminder. And you just realize as you're praying, God, I'm not believing that right now. I'm not believing that you're good and forgiving, abounding in steadfast love.
I don't see that right now. Maybe that's what you pray about. Maybe that's the first time you've ever really heard that. That in your mind, God's always been really big and harsh. And so maybe rather than being a, you're just like, Lord, help me believe this. Help me.
Like that's beautiful. Maybe for a moment, you just see God. And you see that he's good and he's forgiving. Forgiving means that he doesn't hold your sin against him. That you can show up with a lot of problems in between you and he. And he'll forgive you.
He'll wipe it away. He'll make it okay. You don't have to fix everything before you come to him. And that he abounds in steadfast love. Meaning it's not going anywhere. He abounds in love for all those who will come to him.
So maybe for a second, you're able, just the only way your brain can wrap around this is you picture your grandmother's house. Maybe, maybe when you had run away from home, you, you had rebelled as much as you possibly could and have nowhere to go. You showed up there to someone you knew was good and forgiving and abounded in love to all those who came to their door. And maybe for a picture, you can just kind of, you feel yourself almost just drop in your bags and having someone wrap you up and look at you and say, I forgive you. Like, I love you. This isn't going to ruin us.
And so maybe that's what you think about. And maybe that's what you pray. You say, God, help me always to remember you're like that. I mean, to know that and to feel it. Maybe you just praise him because he is like that. He keeps going.
Give ear, O Lord, to my prayer. Listen to my plea for grace. In the day of trouble, I call upon you for you answer me. So David's saying, when I'm in trouble, I call to you because you'll answer. And he says, listen to my plea for grace, meaning I need you to step in and do things because you're good, because you are forgiving and abounding in steadfast love. The word grace is used a lot in the Bible.
It's used a lot in the church because we are Christians. So we're grace people. We believe that we are saved by the grace of Jesus, meaning that he earned salvation for us, that we're OK because of what he did. But someone I've recently this past week, somebody told me something they had memorized about grace to help them define it. And I thought it was really helpful. They said grace is G.R.A.C.E. is God's riches at Christ's expense.
We get all the riches of God. We get all the joy and all the love and all the greatness. And Christ paid for it that we get. That's what grace means, that everything good that comes from God was paid for by Christ. It's like we got an all expense paid vacation. And the only person you can celebrate when that happens is the person who paid for it.
And so maybe you just spend some time after you read that, you just praise God for grace. That you'll get to spend an eternity with him in joy and love that your sins not held against you because he's good, because Jesus paid your debt. So in verse seven, he says, in the day of my trouble, I call upon you for you answer me. There is none like you among the gods, O Lord, nor are there any works like yours. All the nations you have made shall come and worship before you, O Lord, and shall glorify your name for you are great and do wondrous things. You alone are God.
So what David said is that there's none like you, like when it's a day of trouble, I run to you because nobody else is like you. You're big and you're glorious and everything you do is more wonderful than anyone else. And I run to you because you alone are God. And so maybe when you read that, because the point is you're going to allow these words to help you have words or to help reveal things to you so that you might have. In some ways, you're using the Psalms to be conversation cards, topics that help you. You ever had those or like some people have those books where it's like it just is a bunch of questions to try to give you something to talk about.
Some of you have used those to get to know people. Some of you have used those to to make like you maybe it's the person, you know, really well, but you'll end up talking about the same thing all the time. How's work? Good. How's your day? Good.
How's the kids alive? All right. Like, that's it. So you're like, I got these conversation things so that I can ask you, would you rather fight one duck sized horse or whatever? One horse sized duck or a thousand duck sized horses like those kind of are like, what's your biggest dream or what's your favorite movie? Like just things you wouldn't ask each other because I know you.
It's like, I don't need to know your favorite movie is. We're married. Well, what's my favorite movie? I don't know. Like I like those kind of things is a conversation starter. And that's what that's what the Psalms get to be.
It leads you to pray about things you might would not otherwise pray about. It helps you push your brain somewhere you might not otherwise go. And so it trains you not only in new words to say in ways to talk about God and what he's like, but it also helps you for someone who's prayed a lot, not pray the same thing every day, but actually be pushed in a different area to pray about something. But maybe when you read this and you see that it says the day of trouble, I call upon you. Maybe some of you. When he says in the day of trouble, I call upon you for you answer.
There's none like you among the gods. And you see that little G gods. Meaning that there are people that claim there's things that set themselves up as gods as worthy of worship and worthy of devotion and worthy of praise. But only you are big and only you are the big capital G God. Maybe when you read that, you realize that you are unlike David. Maybe the Holy Spirit reveals to you that in the day of trouble, you do not run to God alone, but that you run to a lot of little G gods.
Maybe you realize in this moment as you're reading this and you have to confess to God that actually whenever there's a day of trouble, I run to MasterCard. Whenever there's a day of trouble, I run to the bank, to my bank account, just to see a certain number of zeros so I can feel okay again. Maybe when there's a day of trouble, I run to the approval of others. And I'm not just talking about the love and the health of a good relationship with a friend, but I actually will intentionally go get around my Christian friends and be really mopey and fish for compliments because I need them to fill me up again.
And I know they'll take the time. I know they'll take the time to pump me back up. And it's not healthy. It's just a way for me to feel okay again. And you begin to realize that in the day of trouble, I do not run to you. So maybe you confess.
Maybe you repent. Maybe you spend some time talking to God about him changing that in your soul. Maybe you didn't see that at all. Didn't even think about it. All you focused in on was verse nine. All the nations you have made shall come and worship before you, O Lord, and shall glorify your name.
And so maybe you spend time praying for missionaries that all the nations are to come. You say, Lord, help me not to be a racist and to think that people who speak English are somehow better than people who do not. And God, I pray for all the people that are in other countries right now where it is very difficult for the gospel to be proclaimed. I want to spend some time right now praying for every single pastor, church leader, missionary that is currently in a prison that will receive beatings at the hands of those that have incarcerated them today. And I want you to give them hope and I want you to give them joy.
I'm praying for the underground church in China who has to hide. And when they gather, they don't all get to just roll out at the same time. Y'all, this section gets to leave. It's like when you go to a wedding and they let tables go eat. You get to leave two or three at a time, two or three at a time, two or three at a time. It takes for everybody to get here because you have to show up two or three at a time because you can't all just show up to a place without the cops finding you.
And she spent some time praying for that. Maybe you noticed neither one of those. You just saw all nations and thought, I'd like to see the nations. And you prayed that God would help you take a European trip someday. I don't know. I don't know where you are.
I don't know where God's working with you. That's okay. Like the point of this is for you to be able to take the Bible and pray and not have to have the best theology and not have to know where this connects to other places. Because as you continue to do this, you'll begin to know. You'll begin to see. You'll learn new words.
You'll have a bigger vocabulary. You'll have a greater health and understanding of theology. Every once in a while, just to help my soul, I'll go read through old journals I have right when I felt called to church planting. And I can go read through where I wrote stuff. And there's some stuff that if I preached it here, I would get un-eldered. There would be a meeting.
They would say, you cannot do that anymore. You should go read your Bible but not say words out loud to people. Because it was something I read and I would read it and go, oh, that's exactly what this means. And it would be so clear and I'd write it out like this. And then I would read somewhere else and go, that is not what that meant. And that's okay.
And that's what we're going to use in the Psalms to help train us and to teach us how to pray. Let's keep going. 11. Teach me your way, O Lord, that I may walk in your truth. Unite my heart to fear your name. I give thanks to you, O Lord my God, with my whole heart.
And I will glorify your name forever. For great is your steadfast love towards me. You have delivered my soul from the depths of Sheol. All right, I want us to do something. I want to take just a second, starting in verse 11, of 11, 12, and 13. I want you to read that again.
I'm going to read it out loud again. I want you to read it again with me. And I want you to think about what you might would pray. What that leads you to think. Where the Holy Spirit's guiding you. Something you might pray about.
Now, teach me your way, O Lord, that I may walk in your truth. Unite my heart to fear your name. I give thanks to you, O Lord my God, with my whole heart. And I will glorify your name forever. For great is your steadfast love toward me. You have delivered my soul from the depths of Sheol.
I want you to look at that. And I want you to take just a second to pray something. I'm going to give you about 30 seconds. I just want you to pray something. That this leads you to think about and to pray as we practice this together today. Okay.
For some of you, that was not helpful. For some of you, maybe it was. Some of you, when you pray, you are going to have to pray and read out loud for the sake of your mind. Some of you can do things inside your head very well, and that's fine. But I don't know.
I don't know what you prayed. Maybe you read, teach me your way, O Lord, and you have a decision that you're having to make. So you see, teach me your way, O Lord, that I may walk in your truth. And you just say, God, help me to make a wise decision here. Help me to make one that lines up with your truth. Help me to take the right path.
Maybe you read that I'm, that unite my heart to fear your name. And you thought, why would, why would I want to be afraid of God? And so you prayed, God, I don't understand why I would want to fear you. That doesn't sound great. But he's asking for it, so maybe it's a good thing to ask for.
So help me to have the appropriate good kind of fear that he's talking about. Maybe you read that and you realized you're too afraid of God. And so you said, God, I'm scared of you. I can't do it in a way that my heart's involved. I'm just terrified. I don't know.
Maybe you saw that he says that I will glorify your name forever and that you've delivered my soul from the depths of Sheol. And Sheol is the place of the dead. And so maybe you thought, God, you've set me free from hell. And because I will be set free from hell and I will spend eternity in heaven with you, I will glorify your name forever. Because I will be there because Christ paid my debt. And so forever me being in heaven will be a testimony to the goodness and the grace of God and the name of Christ.
Maybe you got distracted, thought about something else. That's cool. It doesn't end at verse 13. You get to keep reading. We'll go to 14. So David is saying there's a band of men who are trying to kill me.
They don't trust you. They don't follow you. And turn and be gracious and save me and give me strength. Show up and do something. That's what David's praying. So maybe as you're reading that, you think about there are people who don't set God before them.
And so you pray about injustice. You pray about all those who are actively harming others. Maybe you don't see that. You don't think about that. Maybe you just read Insolent Men. Then you think, man, this is David's just praying to God about the things that stress him out.
So you pray about hospital bills. You pray about the things that are making you fearful, making you lose sleep. Maybe you see Insolent Men and the only person you can think of is your husband. And so you pray about him for a while. And that's good. You might not would have otherwise prayed for your husband that day.
Maybe you see a band of ruthless men and you think about your three sons that tear your house up ruthlessly. You pray for them and you ask that they would set God before them. That they would grow up to be a group of men who do set God before them. I don't know. But the point is you're allowing God to speak to you and you're learning how to pray.
And eventually you do line up more with what is being said. Seventeen. Show me a sign of your favor that those who hate me may see and be put to shame. Because you, Lord, have helped me and comforted me. I do want to say something here. David, when he's praying, says, show me a sign of your favor.
He's saying, show up. Let me see so clearly that you are good. That you are all these things you've said you are. You're forgiving. You're gracious. You're good.
You're abounding in steadfast love to all those. Show me a sign. Do something. And we gather because we already have the sign of God's favor. That he is good. That he does abound in steadfast love and that he is forgiving.
You see, we gather this morning because of the cross, which is the sign of God's favor. That he put an exclamation Mark in the middle of history. That he is good and that he is for us and that he does forgive sin and that we can have hope. That we can go to him and be welcomed and loved. Not because we're good or because we've done anything, but because Jesus has accomplished it all for us. And so when we get to this point and we're praying together, maybe we just get to say thank you for the cross and help it be forever in front of me.
That I would always feel as if you were showing me the cross. That you were showing me the sign of your favor. The grace and the goodness and the forgiving love that you have poured out on us and all who believe. So like I said, today's a little different. We approach this differently than we usually would and hopefully it helps. Hopefully it shows you how you could walk through this.
I don't know if you got up early tomorrow. I don't know how long it would take you to walk through this and to use it to pray. But I do know it will help you pray. It will help you have words. It will help you have things to talk about. It will train you in how to speak to God.
It will clear up for you your mind. It will help you focus. And so I would encourage you to begin using the Psalms to teach you how to pray. There's a lot of them. By the time you go all the way through, they're good. You can start back over.
You won't remember them. You can do it again. It's like The Office, the TV show. You can just watch all the way to then and then just start back over. It's just good. Keep being good.
Psalms are better than The Office, by the way. God's called us to pray. But He doesn't leave us alone. He holds our hand and He equips us. He gives us the words to speak because He speaks to us first. So don't feel, I need to pray, I should pray, and then just try on your own.
But ask the Holy Spirit to guide you through His Word and use this to help. And we can't afford to not do this. Life's too hard. There's too much struggle. Too many decisions we have to make. There's too many people dying and going to hell for us to not be a group of people who pray.
And so let's collectively as a church begin praying and begin allowing God to teach us how to pray through His Psalms. The band's going to come back up and we're going to finish out by doing this. I'm going to read through Psalm 86. I'm going to pause at different points and just give a little bit of time for you to pray along with Psalm 86. Then I'm going to pray collectively for us as we walk through this entire Psalm again.
Then I'll say amen and we'll stand and sing. So I'm going to read, stop. You're going to pray where you are. If you need to mumble, that's cool. There'll be some music playing. If you need to keep your eyes open, that's good.
If you're like me at this time in the morning, you bend over, close your eyes. We'll have to wake you up when we get done. Then I'm going to pray and then we'll sing. Psalm 86, a prayer of David. Incline your ear, O Lord, and answer me. For I am poor and needy.
Preserve my life for I am godly. Save your servant who trusts in you. You are my God. Amen. God, we ask this morning that you would listen to us and that you would help us to always pray in faith that you do listen. God, we're poor and needy.
We have nothing that we can offer you. You owe us nothing. We have accomplished and earned nothing. So we ask you to listen, to love us because you're good. Because that's who you are. And God, we, those of us in this room who place faith in Christ, you have made us the righteousness of God.
That you have swapped places with us so that Jesus became our sin and we became righteous. So we are godly. And we are your servants. And you are our God. God, we ask that you would bless this church. That this would be a place where people would lift up our souls to you.
That we would feel free and welcome to cry to you here. That among this people you would gladden our souls. That there would be a joy in your church. That in the midst of pain and in the midst of darkness, that we would bring ourselves to you and to each other. And that you would bring hope. For you, O Lord, are good and forgiving, abounding in steadfast love to all who call upon you.
Give ear, O Lord, to my prayer. Listen to my plea for grace. In the day of my trouble, I call upon you. For you answer me. God, we believe that all of our days of trouble are caused by sin. And that the ultimate day of trouble is when we stand before you in our own sin.
The ultimate day of trouble is when we stand before you having to pay our own debt. And so we pray for our friends and our families and our neighbors and our city. That there would be pleas for grace. That you would listen because you are a good and forgiving God. Abounding in steadfast love to all who call upon you. We ask, Lord, that everyone who does not know you would call upon you.
That even those in this room right now that don't know you have not yet placed their faith in Christ would call upon you. Because you are good and forgiving and you abound in steadfast love. That you would offer grace. And listen. There is none like you among the gods, O Lord. Nor are there any works like yours.
All the nations you have made shall come and worship before you, O Lord. And shall glorify your name. For you are great and do wondrous things. You alone are God. God, you are alone. You alone are God.
God. You alone are holy. You alone are worthy. You alone are valuable. All of your works are wondrous and good. And you do promise that there will be a day when every tribe and tongue and nation and people will gather around your throne.
That you will claim someone from every people group. That you will claim someone from every ethnicity. That we will gather and praise your name. That all nations that you have made will glorify your name. And we ask, Lord, that we get to be a part of that here. That this will be a church that sent people.
This will be a church where missionaries are called and raised up and sent out. Where we send money and we send people and we send effort to see the tribes and the nations and the languages proclaim your glory. Teach me your way, O Lord, that I may walk in your truth. Unite my heart to fear your name. I give thanks to you, O Lord, my God, with my whole heart. And I glorify your name forever.
And I will glorify your name forever. For great is your steadfast love toward me. You have delivered my soul from the depths of Sheol. God, we are people in need of wisdom. We pray that you would teach us your way. That we would walk in your truth.
That you would unite our hearts to fear your name. We thank you that you do save from death. That you died that we might live. O God, insolent men have risen up against me. A band of ruthless men seeks my life. And they do not set you before them.
But you, O Lord, are a God merciful and gracious. Slow to anger. Abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness. God, you forgive sinners. Insolent men do not have to be crushed in their rebellion. But can be welcomed by a merciful and loving God.
You redeem us from all of the poor choices we've ever made. You wipe away everything that would mar us. And dirty us. And separate us. You are good and gracious and abounding in love. And faithfulness.
Turn to me and be gracious to me. Give your strength to your servant. And save the son of your maidservant. Show me a sign of your favor. That those who hate me may see and be put to shame. Because you, O Lord, have helped me and comforted me.
God, through the gospel, you are our comfort and our help. And we pray that we would be a people that forever remembers the sign of your faithfulness. The sign of your favor. That you love us and gave yourself up for us. And that we have hope and joy forever in you. Give us strength to continue to obey.
To serve. To love. And give us grace to do it all with joy. May we praise you, our helper, and our comforter. In Jesus' name. Amen.